Friends vs. Associates: 3 Ways to Tell the Difference!

“I am looking for what I call my move-the-body friends.  I am looking for the folks who are going to show up and wade through the deep water with me” ~Brene Brown   I read this quote and immediately said  “Ain’t that the truth!” and began thinking about which friends would help me “move-the-body” literally.

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My Feminista Perspective: 6 Signs That You Are Dating a Married Man

One of my single friends came to me for some advice about a man that she was dating. While I don’t consider myself a relationship coach,  but as a feminist, I am super keen about how men treat women and vice versa. I also consider myself a pretty good judge of character, so when she

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How 6 Women Strangers Inspired Me to Stop Being Afraid #womeninspired

Growing up, I was afraid to read at home—when I wasn’t in school. By sixth grade, I was a “latch-key” kids— the ones that let themselves into the house with their own keys before their parents got me. Walking into the empty house with just Shadow, my cat, and the hum of the refrigerator was

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Get Expert Advice On How to Care for Your Clothes and Look (Really) Good in Them #Dryel #TheGoodWife

As a 2015 Dryel Ambassador, I had the opportunity to interview Dan Lawson, costume designer from “The Good Wife” on how to create effortless style, take care of clothes, and how to use clothes to bring out our best. I initially thought that costume design was the same as being a stylist. (And by the way,

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6-Week Update: I Quit My job Without Any Prospects and It’s Not All Ponies and Unicorns

Even though it has been only six weeks, it feels like it has been six months.  When I decided to quit my job and relocate to my hometown after being away 10 years, I knew it would be a huge adjustment, but I didn’t think it would be THIS uncomfortable.  Since I was 16 years

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One Way that Black Women Can Move From Making ‘Good Money’ to Amassing Immense Wealth

After an unexpected layoff in April 2014, Mutale Nkonde was feeling desperate. She had always wanted to start her own business but was afraid that she couldn’t because she didn’t have the start-up capital. After working with a credit counselor, she raised her credit score to be approved for a $10,000 business loan. She founded

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Fixed vs Variable Home Loans – Which is Best?

 Is a fixed or a variable rate home loan best for you? I’ve partnered with Newcastle Permanent to help you answer this question in this sponsored post.  Newcastle Permanent provides mortgages with interest rates that are lower than the competition. With interest rates lower than they have been in many years, fixing your home loan

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3 Things To Think About Before You Make New Friends in Your 30s

Some of us are late bloomers, new to a city, or have had to do some major downsizing in the way of friendships because of shifts in priorities and life goals. All of these realities can leave a sistergirl feeling lonely and in search of new meaningful friendships well into their thirties. But before you

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4 Reasons I Finally Forgave My Absent Father

May is Mental Health Awareness Month.  Many of us do things that may not harm us physically, but destroy us mentally.  In my opinion, holding on to unnecessary anger is one of those things that can destroy us mentally.  This was originally written on Father’s Day 2014, however a discussion around forgiving others is a

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6 Simple Steps to Save 50% of Your Income

My husband and I have always toyed with the idea of living off of fifty percent of our incomes— not necessarily because one of us wants to quit our job right now, (ummm…that’s really not true…so let me stop LOL) but because we are serious about wealth and understand that our daily decisions impact our

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